julbug
04-19-2005, 05:24 PM
DS knows the proper way to show affection to our pets, but sometimes when he plays outside and our two dogs are outside too, he gets excited and/or feels the need to "take care of them" and his exuberance can get out of hand. We've spoken to him about this several times and he understands how he is supposed to behave with the dogs but he doesn't always do it. :rolleyes
Well he came inside this afternoon with one of our dogs' collar in his hand, saying "Look what I found." Now since I have seen him "lead" the dog by his collar "so he wouldn't go too far", I suspected this is what had occurred and the collar had come off in the process. DH and I asked him if that was the way it happened and he admitted it and apologized for behaving inappropriately with the dog. We discussed it and DH and I agreed that the natural consequence is that he is not allowed to play outside at the same time as the dogs, and explained to DS that he was showing us that he could not handle the responsibility of playing outside at the same time as our dogs. :(
So, that's the consequence for breaking the rule about how to behave with the dog, but what's a natural consequence for lying to us about it? Or telling a lie at all for that matter?
Well he came inside this afternoon with one of our dogs' collar in his hand, saying "Look what I found." Now since I have seen him "lead" the dog by his collar "so he wouldn't go too far", I suspected this is what had occurred and the collar had come off in the process. DH and I asked him if that was the way it happened and he admitted it and apologized for behaving inappropriately with the dog. We discussed it and DH and I agreed that the natural consequence is that he is not allowed to play outside at the same time as the dogs, and explained to DS that he was showing us that he could not handle the responsibility of playing outside at the same time as our dogs. :(
So, that's the consequence for breaking the rule about how to behave with the dog, but what's a natural consequence for lying to us about it? Or telling a lie at all for that matter?