Mothering by Heart
04-04-2005, 01:06 PM
This is moslty a problem with my 2.5 yo.
One example is feeding the dog. The 2,5 yo usually helps me feed the dog, I got the bowls and she said 'No feed. Mama do it' I said, Ok, i'll do it today. So the 4yo says, "I want to feed him" Before I can even say thanks, the 2.5 yo starts screaming , "No, me, no me"
I said, "I'm sorry, you said you didn't want to do it so now Avery is" She continued to scream and followed Avery to the back door. Avery asked her if she wnated to help her do it and Natalie turned her nose up and stomped off.
That is just one example. She will want to help, then change her mind, then change it back when someone else steps in. I have just beed saying, like above, "Oh, you said you didn't want to do x. Now it's sister's turn"
Is there any thing else I can be doing, or is that adequate? Oh, and I also verify that she does not want to do something. "Are you sure you don't want to x?"
One example is feeding the dog. The 2,5 yo usually helps me feed the dog, I got the bowls and she said 'No feed. Mama do it' I said, Ok, i'll do it today. So the 4yo says, "I want to feed him" Before I can even say thanks, the 2.5 yo starts screaming , "No, me, no me"
I said, "I'm sorry, you said you didn't want to do it so now Avery is" She continued to scream and followed Avery to the back door. Avery asked her if she wnated to help her do it and Natalie turned her nose up and stomped off.
That is just one example. She will want to help, then change her mind, then change it back when someone else steps in. I have just beed saying, like above, "Oh, you said you didn't want to do x. Now it's sister's turn"
Is there any thing else I can be doing, or is that adequate? Oh, and I also verify that she does not want to do something. "Are you sure you don't want to x?"