Desert Rose
03-30-2005, 10:16 AM
On the old board I once posted about a cousin of mine that I was considering calling CPS on. Well, the result was just that I decided to try to help and intervene more. She is really overwhelmed, married to an unemployed, ex-con nazi, and has 3 dc ages 2 1/2 and under!
So I have been trying to talk to her more on the phone and I'd like to see her and the dc more. A month or so ago, I invited her and her dc over for pizza and a movie. I figured the dc would play in Junior's room and we could watch the movie. My son's room is completely visible from the living room. So my cousin, her baby, & I sat down to watch the movie.
It was a nightmare. We didn't get to watch the movie because I realized that my ds was not safe with the 2 1/2 yo. Over the course of an hour, she choked him, hit him, knocked him down, yelled at him, and was just generally horrible. My cousin's reaction was always to yell at her dd. I tried some 5 step intervention and advising my cousin, but to no avail. Just when it seemed that she was calming down, she'd start again.
Well, I'd like to try again. Would you? What would you do in this situation? How can I make this better? Help!
So I have been trying to talk to her more on the phone and I'd like to see her and the dc more. A month or so ago, I invited her and her dc over for pizza and a movie. I figured the dc would play in Junior's room and we could watch the movie. My son's room is completely visible from the living room. So my cousin, her baby, & I sat down to watch the movie.
It was a nightmare. We didn't get to watch the movie because I realized that my ds was not safe with the 2 1/2 yo. Over the course of an hour, she choked him, hit him, knocked him down, yelled at him, and was just generally horrible. My cousin's reaction was always to yell at her dd. I tried some 5 step intervention and advising my cousin, but to no avail. Just when it seemed that she was calming down, she'd start again.
Well, I'd like to try again. Would you? What would you do in this situation? How can I make this better? Help!