BeckaBlue
03-25-2005, 03:08 PM
my ds has multiple food allergies so there's certain foods we don't allow in the house anymore (cheese crackers, popcorn, etc...) because the girls would leave crumbs laying around or what have you.
today dd1 comes and asks for popcorn, i reminded her that we can't have it here anymore, but she can have some potato chips instead. she started with her whine "but mooom, i waaannt it!!!' i remind her it's not safe for the baby. she goes again, i remind her that they were spilling it too much and refusing to pick up. she goes in with 'i promise i won't again!' and i just break down with 'but abbey will'
i HATE that i blamed it on abbey. she WOULD spill it, but so would kenzie (she has good intentions but often has a difficult time following through) and regardless i wouldnt want popcorn in here anymore.
so im curious wwyd if a child keeps pressing for something not allowed after redirecting? what do you say? In ways i hate that shes put into this position of big change (weve changed a lotr of foods here and she doesnt like them) but i also hafta think for the safety of others, something, that at 5, i expect her to respect, but i also realize she may not totally understand of the severity
today dd1 comes and asks for popcorn, i reminded her that we can't have it here anymore, but she can have some potato chips instead. she started with her whine "but mooom, i waaannt it!!!' i remind her it's not safe for the baby. she goes again, i remind her that they were spilling it too much and refusing to pick up. she goes in with 'i promise i won't again!' and i just break down with 'but abbey will'
i HATE that i blamed it on abbey. she WOULD spill it, but so would kenzie (she has good intentions but often has a difficult time following through) and regardless i wouldnt want popcorn in here anymore.
so im curious wwyd if a child keeps pressing for something not allowed after redirecting? what do you say? In ways i hate that shes put into this position of big change (weve changed a lotr of foods here and she doesnt like them) but i also hafta think for the safety of others, something, that at 5, i expect her to respect, but i also realize she may not totally understand of the severity