MamaBeth
03-22-2005, 05:51 AM
I've been up all night with pain from this sinus infection I can't seem to quite kick. About an hour ago, I was sitting in the living room thinking about Sarah and her lack of motivation with SOS these past couple of weeks. Since she had that week's break, she's seemed to pretty much lose the enjoyment she'd had of the program.
Well, DUH! Of course she has! We had set the program to finish an entire school year's worth of work by the end of the school year, even though she was beginning the program with just under half a year left!!! How STUPID and overbearing can I be?! Here I've been pushing her to stay caught up in her work, totally losing sight of some of the very reasons we want to homeschool!!! She's not enjoying this heavy pace of work!!! I don't think I would enjoy it either, and I am not dealing with dyslexia or dysgraphia!!
In the past six weeks that we've had the program, Sarah has completed nearly half a year's worth of work in each subject with A's and B's. She's done a VERY good job with it, but oh, my heart is breaking because I've pushed her so hard. There is not one single letter of law saying that she must complete an entire year's worth of this curriculum in half a year, or that she can't take part of next school year to finish it, or even just do what she can and disregard the rest and begin the fourth grade program in the fall...what am I doing to my poor child?!!
SOMEONE TAKE ME OUT BACK AND FLOG ME for pete's sake! This is NOT what homeschooling is about and I am very ashamed that I have so quickly lost sight of what I believe in.
WHY? Because my mother disapproves of homeschooling? Because my neighbors think I'm crazy for homeschooling? Because the public school system says she was behind?
They are NOT worth losing my daughter's heart or killing her joy of learning over!!! For what?! For the sake of proving some point?! I haven't even really been aware of it, but now that it's hit me upside the head I can see that yes, it's there.
In another disagreement with my mother over homeschooling the other day, she said that she's sorry that I've lost my perspective and have turned so far away from the way I was raised. Here I've been thinking she's wrong, but actually in a way she's right just not in the way she thinks. Yes, I have managed to lose my perspective already, in just six short weeks. I've always felt that there is more to life than academics and grades, and what am I doing already? Pushing my baby to do much more than is realistic or fair.
I feel sick. I owe Sarah such a very HUGE apology, and some time off. We need to do some fun things again...maybe some of her Brownie badges...another field trip into Manhattan. We need to get back to the good stuff of homeschooling.
Well, DUH! Of course she has! We had set the program to finish an entire school year's worth of work by the end of the school year, even though she was beginning the program with just under half a year left!!! How STUPID and overbearing can I be?! Here I've been pushing her to stay caught up in her work, totally losing sight of some of the very reasons we want to homeschool!!! She's not enjoying this heavy pace of work!!! I don't think I would enjoy it either, and I am not dealing with dyslexia or dysgraphia!!
In the past six weeks that we've had the program, Sarah has completed nearly half a year's worth of work in each subject with A's and B's. She's done a VERY good job with it, but oh, my heart is breaking because I've pushed her so hard. There is not one single letter of law saying that she must complete an entire year's worth of this curriculum in half a year, or that she can't take part of next school year to finish it, or even just do what she can and disregard the rest and begin the fourth grade program in the fall...what am I doing to my poor child?!!
SOMEONE TAKE ME OUT BACK AND FLOG ME for pete's sake! This is NOT what homeschooling is about and I am very ashamed that I have so quickly lost sight of what I believe in.
WHY? Because my mother disapproves of homeschooling? Because my neighbors think I'm crazy for homeschooling? Because the public school system says she was behind?
They are NOT worth losing my daughter's heart or killing her joy of learning over!!! For what?! For the sake of proving some point?! I haven't even really been aware of it, but now that it's hit me upside the head I can see that yes, it's there.
In another disagreement with my mother over homeschooling the other day, she said that she's sorry that I've lost my perspective and have turned so far away from the way I was raised. Here I've been thinking she's wrong, but actually in a way she's right just not in the way she thinks. Yes, I have managed to lose my perspective already, in just six short weeks. I've always felt that there is more to life than academics and grades, and what am I doing already? Pushing my baby to do much more than is realistic or fair.
I feel sick. I owe Sarah such a very HUGE apology, and some time off. We need to do some fun things again...maybe some of her Brownie badges...another field trip into Manhattan. We need to get back to the good stuff of homeschooling.